The
significance of a new year is about renewal, restarting,
refreshing your intentions and so many other 're' words!
refreshing your intentions and so many other 're' words!
Seriously though, it's a rare person who does not think about
how they might do things differently. After all this is the
time that people make all sorts of REsolutions for weight loss,
shape change, relationships and so on.
Yoga helps you discover your own truth. But what about what
others say or do? How do you respond to all that?
Let me tell you what I mean.
If you're a serious yogi, then I guarantee you'll want to pay
attention to this one.
Ever heard of Socrates? Probably have,
Socrates lived in the century BEFORE the 'common era' (which
some people call BC).
Here's a man who could, you'll see, even be credited with a
way to speak with compassion and the truth in a NON-VIOLENT
way.
These days you simply could NOT deny that the world we live in
is so filled with violence. It's not just in countries that
have civil unrest or despotic leaders either.
Violence is everywhere. It's in the hearts and minds of
everyone to some degree. And it gets reflected by our words,
thoughts and actions.
You know, there are times when you stand as judge and jury in
your own mind berating yourself. (We all do it to some extent!)
When it comes to yoga, it's a great thing to examine ALL that
you do through some useful filters.
The first major way we learn to do that with yoga is to listen
to the body.
If you're experiencing a violent moment in your practice -
we'll call that PAIN or struggle - then you learn eventually
how to respond by being less violent and adjusting your body
and pose to create a better outcome.
That can take a long time to get right by the way ...
... Sometimes years.
But there's ANOTHER important area of our lives that I
hinted about before.
It's the stuff you think and then the stuff you SAY.
This brings us to Socrates again.
The story goes that the great philosopher came upon an
acquaintance who said excitedly, "Socrates, do you know what I
just heard about one of your students?"
"Hold on a moment," Socrates replied. "Before telling me
anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the
Triple Filter Test."
Hmmmm ... what's that? I can hear you say!
Socrates continued "Before you talk to me about my student, it
might be a good idea to take a moment and reflect on what
you're going to say ... "
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The first filter is Truth.
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"Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell
me is true?"
"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and ..."
"OK, OK," said Socrates. "Now let's try the second filter ..."
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The filter of Goodness
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"Is what you are about to tell me about my student something
good?"
"No, on the contrary ..."
"So, " Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad
about him, but you're not certain it's true."
"You may still pass the test though! You see, there's one
filter left:"
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The third filter is ...
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"The filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about
my student going to be useful to me?"
"No, not really. "
"Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is
neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at
all? "
This is a great story. I believe it's one of the most valuable
ones I have learnt.
In fact I like to think of it as communication yoga or
integrity or even relationship yoga!
Each of us is here to blaze our own trail. How you do that is
entirely up to you.
My advice - if I may be so bold - is take a lesson from a sage
from ancient times. And really, it is ALL about your yoga!
You learn in the room to know your truth, to be good to
yourself, respond with awareness and authenticity.
And you learn to do that in a useful and appropriate way, in a
way that's not violent but compassionate, and in a way that
opens your heart, mind and body.
Now, imagine what your life would be like - what the world
would be like - if your first instinct was to automatically
respond in this way! (... or if you were practised enough in
the Triple Filter principles that it were second nature.)
So you can make yoga the class you attend, or even your whole
attitude to life hinge around these 3 considerations. It's
another way to bring more importance to your yoga mindfulness
and make changes that effect more than just you.
So as Socrates shows us, it's not just what you say or think
but how you filter all that you utter and all that others utter
to you.
Truth, Goodness and Usefulness ... worldly and noble ideals that
your yoga teaches you.
So, think about that :) when you are next listening to ANY
conversation. Even one with yourself. :)
Happy thoughts create better lives. Simple really.
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